Why Dr. Seuss gets an F in Network Marketing
Most people have had the Dr. Suess Book Green Eggs and Ham read to them as children. In the story an unnamed protagonist (lets call him Mr. Prospect), was rudely accosted by Sam I am. Sam thinks that Green Eggs and Ham is the greatest meal on earth and just knows Mr. Prospect will feel the same if he will just try them.
As the story unfolds, Sam follows the prospect from one situation to another, never taking no for an answer, overcoming each objection. In the end, Mr. Prospect agrees to try the Green Eggs and Ham just to get rid of Sam.
Fortunately for Sam, Mr. Prospect discovered he does indeed like Green Eggs and Ham and actually thanks Sam I am.
The above is a perfect example of how traditional selling is done and an absolute disaster in Network Marketing terms. Simply put, God smiled on Sam.
If Mr. Prospect had discovered that he still did not like Green Eggs and Ham, not only would Sam have lost that sale, but any opportunity for future direct or indirect sales from Mr. Prospect or any of his friends and family.
This is the image in the back of the minds of most prospects when a product or business opportunity is presented to them. They expect to be treated as a means to an end rather than a person worthy of respect and of being taken at their word.
This is what causes such resistance. What can an aspiring Network Marketer do to avoid being a Sam I Am ?
First and foremost, banish all thoughts of doing anything to the prospect. The prospect is not there for the Network Marketer to “get” as a customer or potential business partner. The prospect is there for the Network Marketer to get to know and understand to see if what the Network Marketer has is what the prospect is looking for. Don’t look for people to convince, look for people that are convinced and help them act on what they already believe.
Second, realize it is all about timing. The same prospect who wouldn’t consider joining a Network Marketing business when he has a stable job, his finances are good and his bills are all paid on-time and in full, may very well reconsider six months down the line, when his company has been hit by massive layoffs, his spouse has an unexpected medical condition requiring ongoing (and expensive) treatment and he is living off his pension and credit cards because of it.
One popular network marketing book even goes so far as to say once a prospect relationship is created, an attempt to recruit them should be made every six months until they join or die. That will not usually get them to join and is a great way to lose a potentially valuable relationship.
If the prospect says no, let the no stand and ask for permission to keep in touch should the prospect change his mind or knows someone who would be interested. Network Marketing is first and foremost a relationship business. Treating every chance meeting as an opportunity to gain an immediate customer or distributor is killing the goose that lays the golden eggs.
Third, share the product or service but sell the opportunity. As great as the products and services available through the network marketing channel are, they are not the end themselves rather they are the means to an end (better health, affordable legal representation, a better cell phone, etc).
The real opportunity in Network Marketing is not necessarily to make a massive income (although anyone who will work hard and not give up can and many have), but to gain new skills, new knowledge and new relationships the prospect can apply to their life to help them get to where they are going faster.
Even if the income potential of Network Marketing was no greater than what the prospect is already earning, the gains in personal growth, time freedom and the ability to choose ones co-workers would still be worth it for many prospects.
Be a smart Network Marketer. Follow the guidelines set forth above and in the time it took Sam I Am to create one prospect that needed to be convinced against their will, enjoy many prospects that at the right time will willingly join and give thanks to the person who gave them the opportunity to change their life.